Preparing For Divorce In New Jersey 

Calling it quits with your spouse is emotionally devastating. Going through the divorce process can be stressful and costly. You should make sure you are well prepared for your divorce proceedings before they take place. 

Here’s how you can get ready for an in-person or virtual New Jersey divorce hearing. 

Dress Professionally 

The judge overseeing your case will be taking everything about you into account, from your mannerisms to the way you dress. Be sure that you are dressed professionally whether your hearing is at a courthouse or online. Suits and blazers are ideal when appearing in-person, while a nice dress shirt might be acceptable in a virtual court space. 

Arrive On Time 

It’s critical that you’re on time or early to court. Being late could compromise your case, such as causing the judge to form a negative opinion of you or resulting in a divorce agreement that is largely in your spouse’s favor. You should be on time whether you’re headed to the courthouse or have a virtual hearing. 

Take Documentation With You 

Usually, you will need to bring various types of documentation to your court hearing depending on what the hearing is for. For example, if a hearing is on child custody and visitation schedules, you may want to bring printouts of text, email, or co-parenting app transcripts. 

Or, if your hearing is on how much alimony you should be awarded, ideally you will be able to bring copies of your ex-spouse’s earnings, including bonuses and overtime. This allows you to produce just about any evidence needed on the spot, without having to dig through folders or reschedule a hearing so you can gather paperwork. 

Mind Your Mannerisms  

You can be confident the judge is paying attention to your body language and mannerisms throughout the court hearing. Make an effort to have approachable, warm, and open body language. Avoid seeming unapproachable, upset, or angry, especially if your spouse is alleging you committed acts of abuse towards them or your children, if applicable. 

Reach Out to a New Jersey Divorce Attorney 

It’s crucial that you’re represented by a divorce lawyer in New Jersey who can provide you with the experienced legal advocacy you need when dissolving your marriage. Erlina Perez is a compassionate, caring attorney who offers each client the personal attention their case deserves. Reach out today for a consultation by calling (201) 880-7070.